As I write this, I’m getting ready to spend two weeks away from my boys for work.
That’s never easy.
I love my job.
I love my kids.
Each one holds a special place in my heart, and sometimes those two loves pull in opposite directions.
Leaving home is hard.
But I also know why I’m going.
When Carter was just a baby, I was asked if I wanted to become a CPR instructor.
I earned my certification, taught my first class, and almost immediately realized…
I had found something I absolutely loved.
I wasn’t just teaching people how to push on a chest or wrap a bandage.
I was teaching them how to save someone’s life.
What I love most about CPR, First Aid, and AED training is that most people will probably never use those skills at work.
But if they ever need them, it’ll likely be on one of the worst days of their personal life.
A spouse.
A parent.
A child.
A friend.
Those skills don’t stay in the classroom.
They go home.
Over the years, I’ve heard stories from former students.
Some are heartbreaking because, despite everyone’s best efforts, the outcome wasn’t what they hoped for.
Others give me chills because someone remembered what they learned, stepped in, and helped save a life.
Those stories remind me why these classes matter.
After teaching CPR for a while, I volunteered to become an instructor for Attitudinal Dynamics of Driving.
I earned another certification…
…and I haven’t looked back since.
Driving is my favorite class to teach.
Not because I love talking about cars.
Because everyone drives.
We all have access to the same steering wheel, the same pedals, and the same basic rules of the road.
The difference isn’t usually our ability.
It’s our attitude.
It’s our habits.
It’s the decisions we make long before something goes wrong.
One of my favorite parts of teaching is telling stories.
At first, that terrified me.
After all, I’m the safety instructor.
Admitting that I’ve made mistakes behind the wheel felt embarrassing.
But I’m human.
I’ve been pulled over.
I’ve made decisions I wish I could take back.
I’ve experienced moments on the road that genuinely scared me.
Those stories usually earn a few laughs.
Sometimes they start great conversations.
Most importantly, they remind people that changing our habits isn’t about being perfect.
It’s about making better choices tomorrow than we made yesterday.
Every class is different.
Some groups barely say a word.
Others make me laugh until my face hurts.
Some ask a hundred questions.
Others quietly nod while they’re connecting the dots.
No matter who’s sitting in front of me, I always leave hoping one thing sticks.
One thing I tell every class is that someone is waiting for them at home.
Someone loves them.
Someone wants them to walk through the front door tonight.
That’s why changing a driving habit matters.
Not because a policy says so.
Because people matter.
One of my favorite compliments is when someone tells me,
“I wish my teenager could take this class.”
Or,
“Everyone should know CPR.”
I couldn’t agree more.
These aren’t just workplace skills.
They’re life skills.
Don’t get me wrong.
I genuinely enjoy every part of safety.
I even love the analytics side of my job.
There’s something oddly satisfying about finding patterns in data and solving problems.
I’ll spare you the spreadsheets today.
But teaching…
Teaching is different.
When I come home after two straight weeks of classes, thousands of miles on the road, and meeting hundreds of people…
I’m exhausted.
My people meter is completely empty.
I’ll probably spend a day hiding at home, hoping no one talks to me while I recharge.
But it’s the best kind of tired.
Because I know why I was gone.
I wasn’t just checking a box or delivering another presentation.
I was spending two weeks reminding people that someone is waiting for them at home.
As a quilter, I’ve always loved watching something beautiful come together one stitch at a time.
Teaching feels a lot like that.
Every class is another row.
Every conversation is another stitch.
Every person who walks through my classroom adds another piece to the quilt I’m building.
I don’t know whose habits will change.
I don’t know who will finally put their phone down while driving.
I don’t know who will buckle their seatbelt every single time.
I don’t know who will someday have the confidence to begin CPR while everyone else freezes.
And I may never hear those stories.
But I hope they’re out there.
Because if even one conversation changes one habit…
And one habit helps someone make it home…
Then that single stitch was worth it.
Maybe that’s another quilt block I never expected to sew.
One stitched together by hundreds of people I’ll probably never see again, but who have forever become part of my story.
Every class leaves another stitch.
Every student becomes part of the pattern.
And together, they’re helping me build a teaching quilt that I hope stretches farther than I’ll ever know.
Then…
After all the miles, all the conversations, and all the stories…
I get to come home to the two little boys who are waiting for me.
I think that’s my favorite part of all.

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